26 October 2026Partner life
My toddler pushes me away and only wants my partner. It hurts. Is this normal?
Very normal, and it often switches back and forth. Parent preference is a phase in how toddlers organise their attachments, not a ranking of who is loved more.
Try this tonight
Don't take it personally in the moment: "That's okay, I'll be here when you're ready." Build in regular one-on-one time with the less-chosen parent, doing something your child loves.
When to check in
Nothing to check, though it's worth talking about as a couple so nobody carries the hurt alone.
Official guidance: elternsein.info
You're not alone.
