About Not Only You

Not Only You is a community for parents of toddlers and preschoolers. We started it because the hardest parts of these years are often the ones nobody posts about.

The photos on this site are licensed stock images. When members share, we never publish children's names, and photo sharing will always be opt-in and checked by a person first.

Our tips are general, link to official guidance and never replace professional advice. We publish in English, German, French and Spanish, for mums, dads and every kind of family.

Seen

Real moments from real family life, not highlight reels.

Supported

Small scripts you can try tonight, grounded in official guidance.

Together

Mums, dads and carers, working or at home, in four languages.

A family having breakfast together at the kitchen tableA father reading a bedtime story to his child